What is holding you back? The children? Society? Or the fact that marriage comes with security?
Security of what kind I ask? The kind worth living a life you don’t wish on your worst enemy?
Being in a loveless marriage does more harm than good and I have witnessed it with many couples. After the excitement of a new marriage wears down the most important and lethal facts come to play. Grounds for divorce is a bottomless pit, just when you think you have seen and heard it all I am taken back by the most bizarre situation.
The womens charter was sanctioned in order to be the strong hold of all the wives and even the husbands in terms of the rights of each spouse in marriage, duties and obligations towards the family, and the legal potentialities pertaining to divorce and separation. To many women this is a god send as otherwise they would not be aware of the procedure and the flow of the process unless they make an appointment with a lawyer and at times that is not a privilege some women have. Empowered by the womens charter Singapore women today have taken a stand to all the inequalities and discriminations they endear during a divorce.
It is said that the initial stages of a separation and divorce are commonly the most demanding, and clear-headed decision-making often is overlooked in a haste to get it all over with. Therefore, many people end up with an inefficient lawyer. If your marriage has any complicated circumstances such as you having similar commercial interests or having joint ownership of assets etc. it is advisable to approach the best lawyer who has appeared for similar scenarios
Lawyers are not mere mediators or negotiators. They have a very crucial and deciding part to play during a matrimonial disbursement, a part beyond allocation of assets and custody of the children. In fact the battle that happens between the lawyers from both ends decides whether the couple parts amicably or as strangers with no regard for each other. A good lawyer will always have your best interest at heart, though you may be strictly a client he or she should have the compassion and empathy to get on board the emotional roller coaster you are in while remaining professional and in perspective.
Divorce is an ugly affair and bring out the worst in people .Even the most patient and soft spoken! If you find the right lawyer to help you with your case, you can ensure that this difficult journey will be much smoother.